When dating a Taurus man, you might notice he has his own way of testing the water before diving in. It’s like he’s got a secret checklist, and he’s ticking boxes as he gets to know you better. Maybe you’ve seen it in the way he carefully watches your reactions to certain situations, or how he brings up specific topics to see what you’ll say.
It can feel a bit like you’re a contestant on a game show, but don’t worry, it’s all part of his process to figure out if you’re the right match.
Now, you might be wondering what kind of tests these are. Well, let’s just say they’re not pop quizzes or anything you need to study for. A Taurus man might take his sweet time to see if you’re patient, or he could check if you’re as down-to-earth as he is by your choices in food or fun. It’s like he’s got a mental scorecard and every move you make could earn you points. The trick is to understand the game and play it like a pro, with sincerity and a touch of humor.
Here are 7 tests that Taurus men give to a woman to find out if she’s the only…
1) Tests Loyalty Through Hypothetical Scenarios
Imagine this: your Taurus guy friend throws a curveball at you. He pretends he’s won the lottery and asks if you’d stick around if he moved to a desert island. Or, maybe he acts like he’s seen an alien. No, really. He wants to see if you’re his ride-or-die or if you’d run for the hills.
- The “What If” Game: Get ready for a lot of “what if” questions from him. If he says, “What if I had to move away for a job?” think about your answer. He’s checking to see if your future plans might include him.
- Disaster Drill: He might pretend something bad happened — like losing his wallet. He’s watching how you react. Would you help look for it, or just say, “Tough luck, buddy”?
Be truthful in these games. Even if the scenarios seem wild, your honest reactions are what he’s after. And don’t worry, he’s not serious about the aliens (probably).
2) Observes reactions to financial discussions
When a Taurus man chats about money, pay attention! He’s not just talking about dollars and cents. He’s peeking into how you handle the green stuff. Money talks. But how do you?
Your Budget Skills
Are you a saver? A savvy spender? He’ll drop hints about cash to see.
- Saver: “Nice, you have a piggy bank. Old school cool!”
- Spender: Do you buy only what you need, or is it shopping spree time?
Your Money Attitude
Money can’t buy happiness, but your thoughts on it matter. Be real, be you.
- Debt Discussions: “Owe money on that credit card? Not judging, just asking.”
- Splurge Stories: Share a tale of a treat yo’ self day. Did you go bananas?
Plan for the Future
He loves a good plan. Chat about your money dreams.
- Short-term Saves: “You’re saving up for that shiny gadget, huh?”
- Long-term Goals: Maybe it’s a house, or a trip to the moon with a space hamster.
Remember, he’s not a banker giving you the third degree. He’s just curious about your money vibe. Show him you’re as good with cash as you are at laughing at this goofy list. Keep it light, keep it bright!
3) Gauges response to his stubbornness
A Taurus man is like a rock—hardheaded and unmoving. Picture him as a human-sized, movable boulder. When he’s stuck in his ways, you might think you’re talking to a wall. But don’t worry, he’s just testing you!
Stay Cool: When he’s being more stubborn than a goat, keep your chill. Reacting with a big sigh and a smile can make all the difference. Remember, he’s not a bad guy; he’s just playing his favorite game called ‘Test Your Patience.’
- Patience Level: High
- Your Mission: Be cool as a cucumber
Acceptance Approach:
- Be kind and listen.
- Let him finish his “I won’t budge” speech.
- Nod and understand (even if you don’t).
Don’t Try to Win:
- Keep it light! Joking is your friend.
- Don’t push him. He won’t move, trust us.
- It’s not a defeat; it’s strategy.
Flexibility Fun:
- Offer him choices.
- Make it seem like it was his idea (sneaky, but effective!).
Use ‘Magic Words’:
- “I see your point, but…”
- “That’s interesting, what about…”
4) Assesses Comfort with His Routine
A Taurus man really loves his habits. Imagine him like a cozy bear with his favorite cave comforts. If he’s eyeing you as his partner, he’ll see if you’re cool with his routine. That could be anything from his gym schedule to Taco Tuesdays.
- Morning rituals: Are you down to zip your lips while he sips his morning coffee in silence?
- Weekend vibes: Think you can chill with his laid-back Saturday plans? He’s checking.
- Dinner habits: He loves his meat and potatoes. Fancy trying his favorite recipes?
If you show you’re groovy with his way of doing things, he’ll smile big! But no need to mimic him. Just be okay with his practices while being your fabulous self.
Tips to Pass:
- Be on time for his regular movie night.
- Show interest in his hobbies, maybe even join in!
- Don’t fuss about his must-do activities—go with the flow.
5) Monitors Adaptability to Changes in Plans
When you’re dating a Taurus man, he might throw a curveball at your plans to see how you react. It’s like he’s a scientist and you’re the experiment. But no worries, you’re totally going to ace this test!
Surprise, Surprise!
Picture this: You’ve planned a fancy dinner, but suddenly he wants to go hiking instead. Do you frown or go with the flow? He’s watching!
Stay Cool
- Breathe in, breathe out. No sweat.
- Flash a smile and say, “Let’s hit the trail!”
You’ve got this! He’s checking if you’re more like a chameleon or a rock when plans flip upside down.
Plan B? No Problem!
- Option A: Original plan (e.g., Dinner at 7)
- Option B: Backup plan (e.g., Hiking adventure)
Always have your sneakers in the back of your closet, just in case he swaps spaghetti for sneakers.
6) Evaluates Support During His Tough Times
Picture this: Your Taurus guy is having a rough day. Maybe his favorite team lost, or he accidentally shrunk his best shirt in the wash. When things get rocky, he’s watching you like a hawk—with a less intense stare, definitely more puppy-dog eyes—to see if you’re the type to stick around or run for the hills.
What he wants:
- A listening ear: You don’t have to solve the world’s problems. Just nod and pass him the ice cream.
- A shoulder to lean on: Literally, sometimes. Be ready for a head plop.
What you can do:
- Stay calm. Avoid freaking out more than him!
- Be patient. If he’s grumpy, it’s not about you.
Remember:
- Keep it low key. He’s not looking for drama.
- Genuine care. A simple “That stinks, let’s fix it!” goes a long way.
7) Sees Response to His Culinary Preferences
Picture this: your Taurus man loves to spend time in the kitchen, creating dishes that make taste buds dance. Now, he’s curious about your thoughts on his food choices, and boy, does he have a specific taste!
Here’s the dish:
Tauruses have a rep for enjoying the finer things in life, including food. If he’s whipping up his favorite meal, he’s not just looking to fill your stomach – he’s peeking into your heart through your happy food dances (or lack thereof).
Let’s break it down to bites:
- Try it Out: Honestly, give it a taste—even if it looks weird. He’s watching.
- Be Real: If you like it, say yum! If not, be kind—no “yucks” allowed.
- Ask Questions: “What spice is that?” This shows you’re into his cooking.
Engage in the Cooking:
Offer to help mix or chop! Even if you almost chop salads into smoothies, it’s the effort he loves.
Pro Tip: Learn a couple of his recipes. Surprise him by cooking his fave dish!
Remember, it’s not about winning “Top Chef” with him. It’s about showing you’re game for his food adventures. Whether it’s a five-star dish or a peculiar snack, it’s all about the taste test. Pass the pepper and play along!